Tina-Marie's Eulogy
Afternoon, my name is Lisa and on behalf of myself, my parents, my siblings and the rest of the Hunnewell family, I wish to extend our sincerest thanks and appreciation for everyone attending today for Tina-Marie.
This is extremely difficult as Tina-Marie was my older sister and a person that I could speak with about several topics including relationships, family, sports and just life in general. If I needed advice, she would always offer it, but did I always take it, "no," but she knew that was always a possibility with me. Tina-Marie was really a sweet, caring, sensitive soul and who would offer to do anything for you if she could. She loved unconditionally and she always tried to look for the best in every situation.
Tina-Marie had many talents. She was a very good baker, and I can remember when I was pregnant with my son Jordan, Tina-Marie would ask me to visit her and she would just make the best pies, chocolate chip cookies, cakes and breads (my favorite was her banana-butterscotch bread). She would make foods that a pregnant woman could eat without feeling guilty. Tina-Marie was also a very good comfort food maker. She would say comfort food makes everything better and one of her best dishes was her meatloaf.
Tina-Marie was known for her photography, and she loved taking pictures which, she was very good at. She always had a camera with her for our family gatherings and if it weren't for her insisting on taking pictures, and yes, we weren't always up for it or so accommodating, Tina-Marie would remind us that these would become cherished memories one day and we would thank her later. Pictures tell a story – a pause in time, a time for remembrance and reflection, so thank you Tina-Marie for we will be able to relive all the happy times with you.
Tina-Marie also loved crafts, particularly making wreaths with my Mom, she also crocheted, painted and cross-stitched. Many people probably didn't know that about her, but if you've ever been to her home, her craft work was on display.
Tina-Marie also loved to garden and when I purchased my home, Tina-Marie came over and planted shrubs, flowers and other perennials for me. She also showed me how to care for hanging baskets and showed me the secret to having beautiful potted flowers and plants. I'm sorry, but I won't share that secret. The hostas that I have near my house, Tina-Marie planted. I always thought of her each Spring when I would see the growth and looked for their return and now, I have a lasting memory of her love for gardening.
But one of my fondest memories I have of my big sister is on my wedding day this past December. Tina-Marie came to my hotel room and helped me finish getting ready for my big day. She zipped my dress, tied my belt, pulled up my gloves, she carefully placed my shawl over my head so as not to move my hat and then she handed me my bouquet. She then said to me, "I need to take your picture because you need to see how beautiful you look!" She took the first picture of me that morning and I will forever be grateful for her shared words and the memories of that day, for she did everything a big sister would do.
I know many people have memories and stories to tell about Tina-Marie. I think we can all agree that if we were asked to say one thing about Tina-Marie, it would be her smile. Tina-Marie had a radiant smile and although there were times when it was difficult for her to smile, Tina-Marie always managed to do so. She also loved to talk, boy did she love to talk and if you needed someone to talk to, Tina- Marie always volunteered. I would marvel at Tina-Marie's interaction with my parents because both Mom and Dad would always say, "Tina-Marie, do you have to have the last word on everything?" We would laugh about that and now, what would we give just to have her have the last word.
What is most difficult is although Tina-Marie had health issues most of her life, she always fought hard and would give it her best. She had a tiny frame, but her strength, courage, toughness and perseverance that she exhibited was always something I admired about her. I don't think any of us will truly understand what she endured over the years. Although she is no longer suffering and in pain, and we are grateful for that, our pain and suffering has just begun. I know Tina-Marie will be looking down on all of us and she's going to tell us not to cry as God called her home and wanted to take care of her. I know Gramma, Grampa, Uncle Johnny, Uncle Jack and all of the other loved ones and friends we have lost will guide her and show her the way. I know she would not want us to cry for losing her but smile because we knew and loved her. I know she would say remember and cherish the good times, because she will. Tina-Marie, your light will never dim but shine brighter than ever before and we say to you – Fly Tina-Marie Fly.
My Mom would like to share a message with all of you:
Tina-Marie's passing was so unexpected and happened way too soon, something that we weren't prepared for. So I say to all of you – never go to bed angry; hug your loved ones and tell them that you love them and it's alright to say "I love you,"; stop and smell the roses because no one will do it for you; make that bucket list and enjoy life and be grateful for the moments, no matter how big or how small you share with the people you love. Don't put off making that phone call or seeing someone thinking there is always tomorrow because it may be too late.
To quote the great Maya Angelou – "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel!"
I now want to play a song for all of you that Tina-Marie adored – she would call up and say, "you need to listen to this song, it's just so good, you have to listen to it!" The song is Scotty McCreery's "Five More Minutes." So, as we listen to it together, I want you to think of our sweet, beautiful and smiling Tina-Marie because I know I will be thinking and wishing that I had FIVE MORE MINUTES!
Tina-Marie (Hunnewell) Marr, age 56 of Brockton, passed away on Thursday, August 11, 2022 at home after a lengthy illness.
Born on June 16, 1966, Tina was raised and educated in Brockton, She was a graduate of Brockton High School, Class of 1984 where she was Captain of the Majorettes. Tina was the beloved daughter of Bernard F. III and Carol (Scott) Hunnewell. Devoted sister of Bernard F. Hunnewell, IV, and his wife Sherry of Bridgewater, Lisa A. Carnabuci and her husband Edward of Brockton, Patricia A. Leonard of fall River, and Steven Dodero of Bourne. Loving auntie to Alisa Morse (Goddaughter), Jordan Kane, Marla Leonard, Brandon Hunnewell, Madison Hunnewell (Goddaughter), and Ryan Hunnewell. Loving great-auntie to Aaron travers, Hallee Lynch, and Mya Travers. Tina is also survived by her Uncle Ralph B. Hunnewell and his wife Cynthia of Lakeville, her Aunt Cheryl Hallee and her partner William Dutra of Taunton, and her Aunt Tracey Hooper and her husband Robert of Stoughton, and many loving cousins and good friends including Joseph Collins of Brockton. Tina was the granddaughter of the late Bernard F., Jr. and Lelia (Hill) Hunnewell, and the late John B. and Delia (Croce) Scott, the niece of the late and beloved Uncles John B. Scott, Jr. and Joaquin W. Croce.
Tina was a proud and devoted caregiver to her pets Rambo, Max, and Sadie. Tina was a homemaker and her hobbies included gardening, photography, music, dancing, and cooking. Tina also loved the Country music genre. She loved the outdoors and enjoyed fishing, hunting, boating and spending time in Maine with her good friends. Tina was a member of the Samoset Rod & Gun Club of West Bridgewater. Tina was an avid Boston sports fan and loved to watch the Boston teams with her family. Although Tina left us too soon, those that knew and loved Tina will remember her radiant smile, her zany laugh and her gift to gab that no doubt left a lasting impression on all. Her beautiful spirit will live on and her bright light will shine even stronger for she is forever loved and will be forever missed as she is flying with the angels now. Fly Tina Fly.
A funeral service will be held on Thursday, August 18th at 9:30AM in the Russell & Pica Funeral Home, 165 Belmont St.(Rt.123), Brockton. Interment will follow in Pine Hill Cemetery, West Bridgewater. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, August 17th from 4:00PM - 8:00PM in the Russell & Pica Funeral Home, 165 Belmont St.(Rt.123), Brockton